Not hard to find. The ambience helps, but love is definitely in the food. When in Italy, the feelings evoked by your palate, refined or not, cannot be but romantic.
It makes you forget any distress or insecurity. It makes you fly high high towards total pleasure and wonder, and when you’re finished, you find yourself deliciously exhausted.
Who needs a proposal? To hell with poetry! Take me out to dinner and talk about Italian food!